Think big, think positive
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Empowering Lasting Recovery
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My mission is to provide tailored coaching for those who are in the later stages of drug addiction; helping them build a foundation for lifelong rehabilitation, renewed purpose, and sustained well-being.
Face the facts of being what you are, for that is what changes what you are - Soren Kierkegaard
My name is Neil Collingbourne, and I’m committed to helping addicts turn their lives around for good. Intoxication is essentially borrowing happiness from the future. My vision is not only for the client’s rehabilitation, but for them to achieve a full and positive life post-rehabilitation; such that they never again feel the need for intoxication. James Clear says “all change is an identity shift”, and thus I help clients curate their existing values, craft a new story, and then achieve a new lease of life with the power of positive psychology.
From an early age, I experienced low self-esteem, and when I started taking drugs at the age of 17, I gave my life over to partying and hedonism. I thought I was living, but actually I was dying, for as Tony Robbins famously says; “if you’re not growing, you’re dying”. Sure enough, I kept failing at the things that really mattered, until I turned it all around with the power of self-development. Just as our mindset is forged by our experiences, it can also be reforged, by way of my 5 step philosophy.
In contrast to the traditional 12 step programme, my approach is effective at achieving lifelong transformation. My mission has been to help recovering addicts build an empowering sense of identity which will enable them demolish whatever obstacles life puts in front of them in the long-term. I founded Lifelong Positivity sure in the knowledge that if self development can help me find myself and kick my drug habit, it can help others too. Unless one fixes their unconscious mapping, they will be likely to repeat the same mistakes again. Negative self talk, procrastination, self-sabotage and limiting beliefs together conspire to prevent us from growing; thus keeping us in a spiral of frustration and dissatisfaction which causes us to seek refuge in intoxication.
The 10 key areas of growth in one’s life are; career, love life, family/friends, fun, self-education, finances, contribution, spirituality, diet, and fitness. If you’re underperforming in just one of these areas, the integrity of your life as a whole will be adversely affected. Once your identity has been shifted, I will then help you form positive habits in each of these 10 areas, whilst enabling you to annihilate your limiting beliefs and step outside of your comfort zone. Relating your problems and life experiences to me will allow me to help you reframe them in a manner that will best aid you on your path to rehabilitation by embracing change, and letting go of the old habits and thought patterns that were holding you back.
Our values and habits have been shaped by our experiences, mostly during the first 7 years of our lives, and we typically cling on to these, unless we engage in some sort of radical mindset transformation- ideally with the help of a life coach. Values give us purpose, purpose gives us identity, and identity is the key to forging good habits. In my focussed one-on-one sessions, my aim is to help you take control of your life using my RECLAIM strategy- Recovery, Empowerment, Commitment, Lifestyle Adaptation, Identity, and Mindfulness.
If one-on-one coaching is not to your liking, then why not study one or more of my tailor-made courses? Explore the human psyche with a psychodynamics course, diving into the unconscious mind, defense mechanisms, and early experiences’ impact on personality. Engage with mindfulness in another course, discovering present-moment awareness techniques, stress management, and mindful communication for a more balanced life.
Discover the science of well-being in a positive psychology course, studying positive emotions, character strengths, and methods to enhance relationships and personal growth. Delve into the art of conscious identity shifting, learning to navigate various aspects of self across dimensions while maintaining authenticity and integration.
Alternatively, master the art of habit control, understanding the psychology of habit formation and adopting strategies to identify, modify, and sustain habits for personal growth. Each course empowers you with transformative insights and skills, whether it’s understanding the mind’s complexities, embracing mindfulness, fostering positivity, navigating identity, or taking charge of habits, all aimed at enhancing your well-being and personal development.
Let’s rewrite your story for a future of empowerment and fulfillment.
ultimately, there’s one investment that supersedes all others: Invest in yourself. Nobody can take away what you’ve got in yourself, and everybody has potential they haven’t used yet - warren buffett
testimonials
“Life-changing journey! Neil’s guidance helped me overcome challenges, embrace positivity, and achieve remarkable personal growth. Highly recommended.”
Wayne R.
“Neil came at the right time. I wanted to start cleaning up my act, and he led me directly to lifelong rehabilitation.”
John S.
“Stop looking for another course. Neil’s one-on-one course is the best on the market.”
Helen B.
“Very informative course! And the best thing was that I learned it online from the comfort of my home.”
Nancy P.
“I wanted nothing more than to get my life in order. Neil’s one-on-one coaching enabled me to thrive post-addiction.”
Darlene M.
“The course was tailored just for me. Neil scheduled a perfect plan, and once my mindset was transformed, lifelong abstinence came naturally to me.”
Brian L.
Studies show that accountability appointments increase the chance of achieving your goals by up to 95%.
