About
About me
From a very early age, I lacked an empowering sense of identity, and so my unconscious mind kept sabotaging me over and over again. This affected every area of my life, including careers and finances, but worse was yet to come. I ended up taking mephedrone, 4-acetoxy DMT, and a host of other potent psychoactive drugs, got arrested several times, and ended up in a psychiatric ward for 3 weeks. The famed psychiatrist Viktor Frankl once wrote; “when a person can’t find a deep sense of meaning, they distract themselves with pleasure”. I took no more drugs after that, because I knew that I couldn’t allow myself to head backwards, but nevertheless, I continued to suffer for several years- I kept getting arrested, and hadn’t a clue who I was, or what my place in the world was supposed to be.
Pliny the Elder once wrote; “The depth of darkness to which you can descend and still live is an exact measure of the height to which you can aspire to reach”. I turned my life around by mastering the world’s best strategies for transforming the unconscious mind, particularly by nurturing an empowering sense of identity based on helping other people. As Tony Robbins said; “The strongest force in the human personality is the need to remain consistent with how we define ourselves”. Thus, I decided to become the sort of person least likely to remain an addict by devoting my life to the mission of eradicating the scourge of drug addiction, in particular, by addressing the chronic lack of wisdom and encouragement that plagues society.
In 2020 the pandemic hit, and my mental health took a turn for the worse. At the beginning of the year, I knew I had to fix myself once and for all; so to prevent that from ever happening again. Jim Rohn said; “there are two ways a person can change- inspiration and desperation”, and so by continually being inspired and inspiring others, I know I need never sink to the level of desperation again. By nurturing a service identity, I turned my life around, for as William Glassner said; “we recall 20% of what we see, 30% of what we hear, 50% of what we both see and hear.. 95% of what we share with others. Knowing is never enough- we must apply everything we learn“.
Coaching with a purpose
My life was transformed by transforming my unconscious mapping. The fundamental forces that drive our behaviour are based on the core values and beliefs that we hold on the unconscious level, and all of history’s most successful people were driven by an unshakeable sense of self-belief. Muhammad Ali once said; “it’s lack of faith that makes people afraid of meeting challenges, and I believed in myself”. Want to get from a to b in your life, but feel stuck? Here’s the secret; all the barriers are psychological. All you need to do is to turn the “I can’t” into the “I can”, by first redesigning your unconscous mind.
Will you continue to be cursed by your story of inferiority, or will you transform it into one which will compel you to make a positive and lasting impact on the world? With the right mindset, everything that ever happened or that will ever happen to you is positive, so surround yourself with positivity. The motivational speaker Jim Rohn once said; “stand guard at the door of your mind”, so aim to rid yourself of whatever negativity you may encounter. Addiction (which includes watching tv, junk food, and toxic friendships) is fundamentally caused by negativity, and the lack of an compelling identity and narrative for your life.
Life is like riding a bicycle; if you stop pedalling, you fall off
Albert Einstein
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit
Will Durant
You do not rise to the level of your goals, you fall to the level of your systems
James Clear
There is no abiding success without absolute commitment
Tony Robbins
Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm
Winston Churchill
Nothing is either good or bad, but thinking makes it so
William Shakespeare
Mission
To address the lack of wisdom and encouragement that plagues society, such that addictions of all kinds will be far less commonplace.
Vision
A world in which people live and work in accordance with core values that engender positivity, for prevention is better than cure.
Values
- Positivity
- Compassion
- Understanding